... this may happen to your dog.
9/30/2014
9/29/2014
9/27/2014
Single Parenting Is Courageous
Just think about being waken up 6 times a night and not being able to say "Honey, it's your turn."
9/26/2014
How to teach child manners
Manners are rules created by human to interact with others in a cooperative way. Children are not born with manners. They need to be taught. So it's ok if your young child sounds 'rude'. They just need our guidance.
9/25/2014
9/24/2014
Encourage Kids
Be an encouraging parent, but not pushy. Let them explore. Let them learn. Let them thrive.
9/23/2014
9/22/2014
Is Your Child Shy?
Does your child always shy away from strangers, new kids, new toys, new environment? How do you deal with that?
9/21/2014
Parents, Please Take Some Responsibilities
I've always believed that bad behavior usually means bad parenting. But good behavior doesn't necessarily mean good parenting. Actually, sometimes good behavior means bad parenting because parents use cruel means to get "good" behavior.
9/20/2014
Parents Who Attack Others
I've came across parents who would attack others when their parenting practice were criticized. It is understandable that when one is angry, they may want to attack/insult to get back at the other party or to change the subject. But none of that changes the fact that their practice were problematic.
9/19/2014
Treat You Child With Respect
It's amazing how treating them like real people can change your relationship with your child. They will start acting reasonable, too. Show them respect and they'll return the favor.
9/18/2014
How to talk to your child
I listen, I explain, I respect, I give choices, etc. But what worked last night was that I treated her like a grownup and thought from her perspective as if she was (is) a reasonable adult. That worked!
9/17/2014
Parents Need Coffee
Ever woken up by a child in the middle of the night? I have. Every. Single. Night. Coffee is essential to my survival.
9/16/2014
Next Parenting Topic
What should the next topic be?
- Resilience http://lonelylinks.com/download/resilience_art.pdf
- Overcoming shyness http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/icd.1850/full
- Or helping child learn?
9/15/2014
Do parents have the rights to insult or hit their children
Love answers to this question.
http://www.quora.com/Do-parents-have-the-right-to-insult-hit-their-children
Really makes you think twice what a child is. A human being with rights, a second-class citizen or parents' property?
http://www.quora.com/Do-parents-have-the-right-to-insult-hit-their-children
Really makes you think twice what a child is. A human being with rights, a second-class citizen or parents' property?
9/14/2014
9/13/2014
Authoritative Parenting vs Tiger Mom Parenting
Tiger Mom parenting was very controversial because some parents really believe that was a good way to help their children succeed. But as many studies show, it is not the case. Even if the child succeeds, they may have to pay a huge price. Authoritative parenting is the only parenting style to go for any racial groups.
9/12/2014
Did You Child Do Well On First Day of Preschool
First Day of Preschool doesn't have to be all crying. There are ways to reduce a child's emotional pain and help their adjustment.
9/11/2014
Tiger Mom Parenting is Bad
Look at these statistics on Asian suicidal rate. Culture of course plays a role. Within culture, parenting is probably the most influential aspect that drive children and teenagers depressed.
9/10/2014
Toddler's Tantrums
Terrible-twos creeping up on you? Tantrums is the most complained about issues by parents of toddlers'. Take a look at these practical advice on dealing with tantrums. They may just save your sanity.
9/09/2014
Authoritative Parenting - How does it work?
Among the four parenting styles, authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, neglectful, psychologists and psychiatrists worldwide agree authoritative parenting style is the best. See what benefits this parenting style can bring you.
9/08/2014
Top 10 Parenting Advice -- How to be a Good Parent
Take a look at this list of 10 parenting tips. They are based on studies over decades of research by psychologist, psychiatrists and scientists.
9/07/2014
Toddler Temper Tantrums - How to deal with
Here are some steps to handle toddler tantrums. Remember, tantrums are toddler's words, usually telling us they need or want something. It's not meant to drive you crazy. When toddlers are in a meltdown mode, they are actually in emotional pain that need our help to regulate their internal feelings rather than our ignoring them.
9/06/2014
Parenting Responsibility
Parents should know their power over their children. The way parents talk to their children becomes the children's inner voice.
9/05/2014
Parental support
Parenting support and reassurance of worth is a strong predictor of academic performance of college students. Not even friends or romantic partner's support can make such a difference. Cited by 281.
9/04/2014
Parenting Style, Practice and Attachment
With overwhelming data on the benefits of secure attachment and problems associated with insecure attachment, why do you think some parents still opt for insecure attachment promoting parental practice? Is it just an intertransgeneration cycle that cannot be broken, stubborness, indifference or too much pride to accept others suggestions?
9/03/2014
Child Temperament Cannot Affect Attachment
A study showed that although temperament can influence whether a child develops secure or insecure attachment, temperament alone cannot predict whether a child will acquire secure or insecure attachment. Instead, a goodness of fit between parent and child can better predict the type of attachment that will develop.
9/02/2014
Parents' Responsibility
It's about time parents take responsibility for their own actions. Too many parents have blamed young children's behavior on the children or on the teachers. But in fact, for very young children who only have a small number of caregivers, parents are the most important role models for them. Parents are people, too. They can't be right all the time. It takes courage to admit one's own wrongdoing and take responsibility.
9/01/2014
What is temper tantrum?
All children have temper tantrums (If a child doesn't, then he/she is either a saint or an abused child who's been scared into not having one). Temper tantrums is taxing on parents, but it's also perfect time to teach your kids how to deal with setbacks. Use it. Don't waste it.
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